Rob was a fraternity brother in college, later a roommate in Nashville, and at one point fairly hip to the gay scene. He works for a church in the midwest now, where he lives with his wife and three little girls. Our lives have little in common, but we remain in touch via Facebook.

I sometimes wonder what my slap-happy homo/adventurous San Franciscan posts look like to my more conservative friends.

It didn't occur to me that their posts can take an out-of-context meaning for me too.

And just in time for Bear Weekend!


Seriously: Do not shave the bears.